NONFLICT
What is the conflict? How does it make me feel? What is important for me?
Your partner mirrors the essence of what you have said, and asks:
Did I understand you well? Is there anything else?
(You and your partner switch roles and repeat questions above)
You and your partner discuss together:
What is our real underlying conflict?
What is working well for us?
What is our worst-case scenario? (Visualize facts and feelings)
What is our best-case scenario? (Visualize facts and feelings)
What are the obstacles for achieving our best-case scenario?
What can we do to overcome controllable obstacles? (Who, What, When?)